8 Ways Kids Can Calm Down Anywhere PLUS a Printable Mini Book

Sharing is caring!

Calming tools are really wonderful for kids who are quick to anger or have a difficult time calming down when upset. In my post about tips for helping an angry child calm down, I added an infographic at the end with some ways kids can calm down anywhere, those tools were so popular I wanted to write a bit more about them, and offer you the opportunity to print them in a mini social story book for kids.

These 8 ways kids can calm down anywhere are great tools for helping kids when upset. Grab the printable mini book so that kids really can do these anywhere!

8 Ways Kids Can Calm Down Anywhere

There are so many wonderful ways that kids can calm down when upset. From sensory breaks, brain breaks, yoga, etc., but often there are times that kids need help calming down outside of the home, or in a situation where such opportunities are not available. These calming tools allow for kids to calm down anywhere, in the car, or even in a crowd. 

Here are 8 simple ways kids can calm down anywhere:

Count to 5.  Counting is a really great way to help kids slow their breathing down, and can ground them. If really upset, a child might need to do this multiple times.

Take a deep breath. Taking a few deep breaths can be so relaxing for kids, and can also help slow their heart rate down.

Blow into your hands.  Blowing into hands gives kids the feedback of what deep breathing feels like physically, and can be a really calming process.

Place hands in pockets. When kids have a difficult time keeping their hands calm when upset, placing their hands in their pockets, or sitting on them, can give them an alternative to aggression.

Notice what your body feels like. In the infographic, I wrote ‘notice antecedents to behavior’ which is great for parents to do, but is also important for kids to begin to do. This is a fancy way of saying ‘notice what comes first’. By recognizing what happens in your body when upset  (such as a racing heart, sweaty hands, etc) kids can learn these cues and practice their calming tools before becoming too upset.

Make a fist, then relax the hands.  This is another great feedback exercise, where kids have a way of feeling pressure and then practicing muscle relaxation. It is also another great alternative for kids who turn to aggression when upset.

Relax the muscles in your body. On the infographic, this is ‘do a body scan’. Help kids learn to start at the top of their body and work down, purposefully relaxing all of the muscles they can think about and focus on.

Ask for a hug. Hugging is a really powerful calming tool, and can go a long way towards making kids feel better.

Find the infographic to print here.


What are Social Stories?

These 8 ways kids can calm down anywhere are great tools for helping kids when upset. Grab the printable mini book so that kids really can do these anywhere!

Social stories are social learning tools typically used to help individuals with Autism understand how to act or react in a variety of situations. While incredibly useful for this purpose, they can also be used for typically developing children to help them deal with a number of situations as well, and are great for helping calm down anywhere. 

This printable mini book is a great tool for parents and kids. You can print this, fold the one sheet into a mini book, and keep it with you to use in any situation. I know for my spirited boy, these tools are very helpful, and this book is perfect to keep in the calm down kit in our calming corner.



*An important tip to remember, is that when using social stories, it is important to read and practice them when the child is calm, and when they don’t need them. This ensures that in the ‘heat of the moment’, your child won’t have to learn these, they will instead have them in their back pocket. 

Watch this video to see how to fold your book.


Get Your Printable Mini Book

These 8 ways kids can calm down anywhere are great tools for helping kids when upset. Grab the printable mini book so that kids really can do these anywhere!

Sign up to gain access to our exclusive content, which includes your mini calming tools book download! 


P.S. This is one of the many resources in the Positive Parenting Bundle available for 90% off for a limited. The bundle includes 3 incredible courses for parenting peacefully and positively and  managing emotions, along with many other ebooks and printables. You won’t want to miss it.


 Pin this!

calm down anywhere infographic


Parenting Mini-Ebook

Screen shot 2017 08 03 at 4.49.24 pm

Enter your email address to get this FREE parenting tips mini-ebook delivered straight to your inbox.

We won't send you spam. Unsubscribe at any time. Powered by ConvertKit

Sharing is caring!


  1. Marie says

    I subscribed in order to get the mini calming book as a free printable as promised but that printable is not included in the free parenting tips you sent me. There is a link to a calming tips page but it’s not free. Could you please send me the free booklet? Thanks!

  2. Heather Sayler says

    Could you send me a copy of the book? I signed up for emails, but did not get the confirmation. Thanks!

  3. Luella says

    I subscribed so that I print out the mini book. But I am not able to access it. Nothing happens when I click on it.

  4. Em says

    I used your mini book this week with a client and it made a huge difference! Thank you for sharing it and making it available!!

  5. says

    What’s up,I check your blog named “8 Ways Kids Can Calm Down Anywhere PLUS a Printable Mini Book” on a regular basis.Your humoristic style is awesome, keep up the good work! And you can look our website about daily proxy.

  6. Andrew says


    Thanks for the great resorce (mini book). Unfortunately, the video on how to fold the boook doesn’t work. Could you please email me the instructions?


  7. Christine Nicklos says

    Hello, I have subscribed but am unable to get the Calm Down Mini Book, is it not available anymore?

  8. Michelle says

    Hi. I subscribed but didn’t receive an email. I would love this resource. Please can you help me. 🙂


Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *